Monday, May 30, 2011

Week 6-candelaria

Hola familia,
Por fin(kind of like finally) the birth certificate for our investigator arrive so they'll be able to get married on the 7th of june :). We were hoping for the 31st of this month, but He has something wrong with his kidneys and has a doctors appointment for that day(from what I understand it is recurrent kidney stones but I'm not really sure if I understood right) BUT other good news his future wife was finally able to come to church for all of church so that is one attendance and she came again yesterday after she got off work(which means she came for Relief Society), and she'll be able to be baptized with him. :D Also we have another young woman, who wants to be baptized and she has permisson from her mom, but she wants the support of her dad. She's going to visit him this weekend so we're hopeful that she'll be baptized the same day as our other two on the 7th. BUT to complicate matters, our chapel is going to be expanded and yesterday was the last meeting we had in the chapel, this next sunday we'll be meeting in a really big house. But we won't have a baptismal font, so for our baptisms we'll have to use the font in ParaĆ­so (about 45 min from candelaria) but they are alright with that. We have another investigator who is positive, but he only has one time coming to church I'm hopeful that he'll be baptized too.
We spent (a lot of time) yesterday talking to the wife of the bishop and to the relief society president to help us figure out how we can strengthen the ward here. We have come to the conclusion that the ward lacks love one for another, but I'm not sure how to help them learn to love one another. Any ideas? all we can think of is being examples.

It is hard to believe that we only have one more week left for this change, Next monday I'll know where will be my next 6 weeks and who my companion will be. The other area further up in the mountains (Pajonal) will be opened up this next change is what we've been told, so there'll be 2 companionships living on the property.
The rainy season has started. so far It rains a little off and on in the afternoon and then about 8pm it starts to pour and it pours until after we go to bed. The crops are growing, and they are planting other things here(old style, with a stick and a bag of seed) I am honestly not sure what they grow. But the cows and horses are starting to look more healthy now that there is plenty of grass in their fields. It is humid, which means it takes my clothes 2 days to dry. and even then they always feel a little damp. Also there are some really big bugs that apparently accompany the rainy season(ugly critters) and flys...

I found a store that sells bug spray(OFF). It is a good thing that we get reimbursed for it or I couldn't afford it. Its almost 6 bucks for a can about as tall as my hand. It lasts about 2 weeks. I still get bit, but not as bad as the first week when I was using a different type of spray. And I'm using the dryersheets that Hna Strong left me. I think they help. My legs are healing and I don't see to many new bites ;)
I think thats about it, I love you all,
Love Hermana Allen

Monday, May 23, 2011

Week 5 change 2

Greetings from Santa Ana!

Today
has been an interesting day, and a long one at that. We woke up at 4 this morning to get ready so we could catch the bus at 5:00, we were out and waiting for the bus and it finally passed at 5:30- oh wait really this day started last night when our zone leaders called and said all of the Hermanas were going to San Salvador for P-day, and that we had to meet president at a certain place in San Salvador at 9. It was cheaper and faster to take the last ´direct´bus to San Salvador (as opposed to one that would take us to Santa Ana, and then we'd take another one to get to a popular bus stop-called the saber- and then another to this place) so we took this bus, and got off in the saber at about 815 and then waited for another and took that to where the elders told us to go, then walked back to where we were meeting the APs(abt 9), and realized two things, 1 that the last bus wasn´t necessary because all the busses passed this point and 2 there were two 'Q' places and that we hoped we were at the right one. We were about to head to the other one when the APs showed up at 930. gee sometimes I wish I had a car(an then I'm glad i don't because I don't want to drive here) We played futbal all of the Hnas in the mission except the 4 in Belice, and then we went to president's home where we ate lunch and president told us which Hnas are going to Belice this next change. Its not me. : ) more time to work on my Spanish, but it is Hna Clark, and Hna Woods is burned out so they asked me to prepare myself to me the next mission health care specialist. (they also call it mission nurse, but you don't have to have a nursing license or even have the education to be the nurse for a while in one of the missions the mission nurse was an elder who had 4 years of med school, but hadn't graduated yet, and in another mission they had one who was a health science major, and had worked in a lab for all of her school. It just means that you are the mediator between the missionaries and the president and the area medical advisor.) They said that Hna Clark will be in charge of Belice, and that we'll split El Salvador for a while while I transition into having the full burden of all of the missionaries here in El Salvador. And that that will start next change. Who knows where I'll be, its possible I'll stay in Candelaria, because the mission office will be in this stake. But I might move into Santa Ana, we'll see in another 2 Sundays.

SO now we're here in Santa Ana again writing, we still haven't bought groceries, but I don't really need any, although I do need to pull out money for the next week. The work is good, although difficult, and every day really is an adventure. We were hoping to have FHE with one of the recent convert families tonight, but it doesn't look like that will happen as it is 5 now and it is an hour to Candelaria and the area where this family lives is one of the areas we don't go after dark.
It is always good to hear from you, and I'm hoping for a response from Jake and Zac any day. (HINT HINT WRITE ME!!!! little brothers!)

Its fun to hear that you are working your way though 2 Ne, thats where I am-in Spanish- you think Isaiah is hard to understand in English.... ;)

Love you all, and you are in my prayers always
Hna Allen

Monday, May 16, 2011

Map

Hey so I was working on a map of my area and thought I'd send you a link, so you can see (kinda) what candelaria looks like :) it goes all the way out to El Jute and we've been up to Santiago de la Frontera, but only once that used to be another area and they had some investigators there, but we've had to drop them because it was to far. and it also goes out to (i think) La Arenera.
Love ya!

http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=es&q=El+Salvador&aq=&sll=37.0625,-95.677068&sspn=51.621706,113.994141&ie=UTF8&geocode=FYl70gAd7ouz-g&split=0&hq=&hnear=El+Salvador&ll=14.112765,-89.650455&spn=0.003886,0.006958&t=h&z=18>

aaaand its monday again

Hola family!

Its been great to hear from you all, Everytime I read your emails Bryce and Anita I think, wow, all around the world the mission work really is the same, drunk, high people saying things they won't remember tomorrow and people who are great and progress and people who don't.

So we have been contacting a lot here, we worked our way up and down two streets yesterday, and as Candelaria is probably not that much bigger than Driggs we don't have that much of the town itself to contact. It gets difficult as there are areas that we aren't supposed to go after dark (its like half of the town and pretty much all of the outlying area) because it is dangerous, so we contact in those areas before dark and other areas after dark (with the theory that if they are there in the day when we talk with them we'll be able to come back the same time another day) not always a great theory, but its what we work with.

We have been struggling with our inactivos, there are a lot of them that live in the mountains and can't afford to come to church, (literally they can't afford the $0.35/person to bring them on the bus) and it is to far to walk for a lot of them, as well as it is a long way to the bus stop for some of the older members up in the mountains. We've made a plan though, the Elder's quarum president and one of our more recent converts are family of many of those that live up in the mountains and they said they'd head up this week and talk to them and if they get enough to say they'll come they can use a truck to go get them and bring them to the church(a couple of the members have trucks and they load the back full to go places like with mutual, they load all the youth in the back of the truck that has a canopy and then they drive to Santa Ana for practice for the cultural event for the temple dedication.)

But we've got some positive investigators, and we work hard everyday to build up the kingdom of god here in Candelaria.

Umm, the other day I say my first Tranchula. We were walking through town and this guy was crouched down with a thin stick in one hand(like a skewer for a bbq) and in the other a little bigger stick that was flat on the end. The one that was flat on the end he gently brought down in front of him and as we passed him I realized he had pinned the back of a tranchula with it and with the other stick he very carefully pushed it through the upper part of the tranchula and then he stood up, with a tranchula skewered on the end of a stick. I don't know what he was gong to do with it.

Querro ver, que mas....

Oh dogs, there are so many dogs here. Lucky for me they are almost all pretty easy going, and we're usually able to walk past them with hardly more than a bark, but every so often they don't like it when we walk past and then they growl and bark like hey this is my street(yes street we walk in the middle of the street and the dogs lay on the street and take exception to you walking on it). But the dogs here are really skinny. Most of the animals are really skinny, you can count their ribs. Also on another note, when I was in the CCM one of the Hnos said, please remember that if you drop something (like food) on the floor it isn't going to just disappear some one will have to clean it up after you. I understand why he would have to say that. Drop a crumb, and if there isn't a cat or dog nearby the ants.. oh the ants will take care of it in short order. The other day -this is kinda gross if you have a weak stomach stop reading- one of the cats threwup in front of our house(like on the sidewalk) but not to fear by the time I saw it it was black with ants, and by the time we came back that night, it was gone. If you don't mind the ants they really will clean up anything. Alright I guess they haven't taken a liking to plastic yet, which is a shame, they would have a wonderful feast (think the canals in Egypt mom and that is what the river near our house looks like behind the log dams they have across the river)

Oh more adventure: the bus: you never know what you'll see on the bus.. a lady with a parrot, a guy with 5(yes 5) chickens live ones with their legs bound together...a box of chicks, a huacab of plants, and then there are the people who make a living by selling fruit on the bus. They get on at one stop and walk from the front to the back (usually once is all they manage with the crowd) and tell you what they are selling, watermelon, melon, cucumber, mango, papaya, etc all cut up and put into plastic baggies. Haven't tried any yet though they look good, maybe oneday when I feel like risking being sick.
I need to go, Love you all
Hna Allen

Monday, May 9, 2011

¡Puchica! una otra semana!

Holy cow (that's what puchica means, holy cow, oh my gosh, wow) another week has flown by. Yesterday was mothers day in the states(you all know) and tomorrow is mothers day here in El Salvador. Its been hot here this week. Even the natives are sweating. It gets really hot and then the wind starts to blow :) and then it blows in the rain clouds, but it is really hot and still right before that happens. And its been hot and still for about 3 days now. It doesn't cool down much at night.

Mom! I got your package last Wednesday. Thanks so much. It was so great to talk to you yesterday and sorry that we got cut off (Zac and mom) the service here is interesting it just drops calls all the time(apparently that's what they told me when I told them that the call dropped.) I do have socks now thanks! But the socks don't stop the mosquitoes from biting my legs.
So a little bit about the culture: first there are a lot of motorbikes up in Candelaria and a fair number of trucks though they are all 2 wd They put metal frames around the bed and then they're like the bus but cheaper(we missionaries aren't allowed to ride in them) and they take people from place to place, and you pay the guy who stands in the back like a dime or something. Another interesting transportation option is a mototaxi its like a scooter with 3 wheels(imagine a scooter, now imagine that the back tire is two tires with a seat above the axle,) they pack like 6 people on those things and go all over. They are anywhere from 25 cents to $1 depending on where you want to go.

Pilas... (mom we started to talk about these but then the call dropped.) Imagine a concrete slab about 5' by 3', then imagine this slab is a concrete block about waist high with three basins, a big one in the middle (about a foot and a half deep) and then one on either side. This is their sink. They do everything here, food preparation, wash dishes, wash laundry, wash children... everything involving water(if you'r lucky your toilet has its own water supply if not grab a huacab(like a plastic basin) and fill it out of the pila(the water that they run into the middle basin when they have water) and dump it in the toilet bowl fast and the toilet 'flushes'.) The pilas are usually outside, but not very far from the house, and if you really want to get technical most of the houses are outside because they are just a roof with two or three walls to give a little privacy. with a fence around the back yard/garden/trees. No there isn't really to much wildlife around these pilas(1 because any animal of significant size has been either killed and eaten or scared away by the dogs, and 2 because these pilas are almost always being used) The poorer people don't have pilas in their houses or in their yards, they take their laundry to a shed looking thing that is a series of pilas and they all wash their clothes together, and they also haul the water to their houses in these plastic jugs that remind me of the clay pots you see in the scripture movies. And they carry any thing that is heavy on their heads. Balanced there so they can hang onto their child with one hand and stabilize the load with the other.

The work, we're waiting for a birth certificate still for one of our investigators to be able to get married to he can get baptized. And we're working with quite a few others that we're hopeful that they'll get baptised this change.

We're also working on finding those that don't come to church. Our 'simi'-I don't know what that stands for- is probably half an inch thick. That's the list of all the members of the church, and since we have an average attendance of about 100 people there are a lot of people who just don't come. We arranged with one of the members to help us, he is family with about half of them. He said that there are really 3 big families that are members of the church(and menos activo) the family of his wife, his family and then this other family that doesn't have anyone active. We're going to the 'mountains' on Tuesday to find them.

The Spanish is coming along. I have days that go really well, I talk a lot and people understand me, and then I have days that I talk and people look at my companion and say 'what did she say?' And miraculously most of the time my companion 1understood what I said and 2 tells them what I said, and I feel like she says exactly what I said, but then they understand.

I've been reading Jesus The Christ while I eat breakfast and I have been learning a lot. This morning while I was washing my clothes(about as mentally involved an activity as moving pipe) I was thinking about the parable of the virgins(which I had just read about in Jesus the Christ) and I was thinking about The symbolism of these women who are waiting for the bridegroom. They have learned that the savior is coming, but they don't know when and the wise ones had oil in their lamps and some to fill the lamps up again but the foolish ones only had the oil that was in the lamps. We all are one or the other. We have our lamps and we have oil (the gospel and testimonies) but some of us have assumed that having had a testimony at one point will suffice, with out realizing that as we wait for the savior to come our lamps are burning. We have to be building our testimony. The oil is burning whether we are working on growing in the gospel or not, and if we aren't working on being better, and building our testimony through study, prayer, and meditating on what we've learned, we won't be prepared to greet the bridegroom, but will be frantically trying to find oil.

I was thinking about some of the less actives that I've talked to here. There was one man, who had been baptized in the 80s he had been active in the church, serving, but he didn't see the importance of studying and learning more about the gospel everyday, and he reached a point that he justified not going to church, I have to work, I am to tired, I _______, until he started to doubt what he had once known. His lamp started to sputter and he had no oil to put into the lamp, and his testimony, which had been a strong vibrant flame, became a smoldering wick, that needed care and attention. Wow that was long and I hope it made sense.

My time on the computer is about finished. Love you all, Love Hna Allen

PS:
I realized I didn't answer your questions, mom.
Do you feel safe? Someone asked me, I realized you've never mentioned it. (Compare it to Egypt.) Well we are instructed to be in our apartment everynight at 8 pm. (just the Hnas the Elders are out til 9) and as far as compared to Egypt I feel safer, but I think part of that is that I know I'm on the lord's errand. I know that as I am obedient to his commandments (the commandments of the church and the rules of the mission) that he'll bless me and I'll be protected. I couldn't ask for a better security guard than the Lord.

Do you have instructions for in case of emergency here's the signal, do this? Some foreign missions have that. We have an emergency plan, but as for a signal, no. As part of our instructions we are asked to keep enough cash in our apartments to be able to pay for a taxi to the mission office. that ranges from area to area from about $7 to $70.

Do you have 72 hour kits in your apt? We have what are called emergency backpacks that we are given on our first day in the mission with medications(benadryl, tylenol, advil etc) and bandages with instructions to buy specific foods to add to the backpack. I have mine, but not everyone was obedient and has theirs.

Do you have electricity in your new rural place? How about running water. I caught that you are doing laundry by hand, how about the rest of it? Refrigeration? Yes, yes, yes. One of the safety guidelines for the housing is that they have electricity and a light outside. Our water hasn't gone out yet and yes we have running water.

What are you eating? We have lunch with a member of the ward who we pay to cook for us, so usually we eat pretty traditional El Salvadoranian foods, Sopa de frijoles(bean soup its like kidney beans and chicken broth with a drumstick and veggies like carrots, potatoes and a green veggie with about the texture of a potatoe, but it doesn't taste like a potatoe, or any type of squash I've ever eaten.) Frijoles(beans pureed), rice with some carrots usually, and tortillas always, but not tortillas like you eat there. They are corn maiz and water, formed into a disk, and then cooked on a griddle, they are usually between the size of the palm of your hand and the full hand with fingers extended. usually about the first knuckle of the hand if you were to put them on the open hand. Also Cheese, but again not like any cheese I've eaten before its sharp, white and has a pretty distinct flavor.

Housing the same in your rural Candelaria? The house here is in some ways nicer than the one in Santa Tecla and in many ways not. It is pretty though

Love to hear, flora & fauna? There are trees of every kind of fruit, and I've eaten quite a few fruits that I've never tried before. Some are good, others not so much. Everything is green and lush, Words are really inadequate for this topic. Truly.
Love ya Hna Allen

Monday, May 2, 2011

Greetings from Candelaria

Hola familia,
Here I am in Candelaria(actually I'm in Santa Ana right now to write but my area is Candelaria) Candelaria de La Frontera is where we live and it is really a huge area, even bigger because we don't have bikes or cars and buses are pretty scetchy. (sometimes they come by and sometimes not) We had a baptism of a 13 year old last friday and he was confirmed on sunday. He lives with his aunt and grandma who are ´menonita` that means they wear hand made dresses all the time and the aunt wears a white head scarf over her hair and their hair is always braided and up. I haven't really noticed any other differences. He has a whole ton of family that are members but the ones that live in candelaria are inactive. He was baptised by his uncle who is active and lives in Chalchuapa.
We also have a date for another investigator. He's been coming to church for 3 months now and finally all the papers are in order, almost. We are waiting for his birth certificate which has to come through the pouch from the other mission, we are planning that it'll come this wednesday (the zone leaders go to the office on tuesday and get the stuff that comes in pouch and we'll get it at district/zone meeting on wed)
If that comes we'll have a wedding and a baptism this weekend. His future spouse is positive but she hasn't been able to get work off yet, so she hasn't come to church. We're praying that she'll be able to find other work. She's been looking but hasn't been able to find anything.
ON another note-I'M BEING EATEN ALIVE!!!! The mosquitos are so thick. I have dryer sheets, which is a little helpful and a miracle becuase they don't sell them here(the NA Hermana before me went to Belize and left them for me :) ) and I put on off every 4 hours and my legs still look like I have chicken pox or something. Ah they itch.
Anybody have any ideas about how to not be bit?
I did laundry today... by hand. It probably wouldn't have been so bad if I hadn't just switched from having pday on friday to mondays so I had a week and a half of laundry and now it is hung up all over the property. Its a good thing my comp and I are the only ones that live there.
Its really hot up in the mountains(where Candelaria is) but it rained last evening/night which meant that for the afternoon and evening it was refreshingly cool.
Candelaria is very rural and everytime we walk through the pastures and fields to get to another persons house and I see the cows and step over the pies I am reminded of home.
We are working hard and communication is interesting because my spanish is leaps and bounds better than my comp's english. But we manage. I think I am here to help her develop patience. Some times she'll say something and I don't catch it and I ask her to say it again so she does but she raises her voice too. Its funny but I didn't realize that when you speak louder you slow down. More than anything it is that she slows down when she repeats it that helps me. Not because I didn't hear it, but because she said it so fast I didn't understand. I do get a little frustrated at not understanding but all I can do it laugh. Especially when we're somewhere and someone starts talking to us and I focus so hard so that I can understand that they start talking to me(then I'm in trouble becaus they ask me the questions and I have to go ´ummm...¨ (look at hna fuentes) and she answers) and I laugh inside.
I still need to go find OFF because the little store(owned by walmart) in candelaria didn't have any.

Love you all and its been good to hear from you all.